Dinner Guest #45 - The Y. Family


Sunday, November 18, 2011

Eight years ago, I laid in bed late one night in our home in Fullerton, California, while Ryan studied for his optometry exams in the next room.  All of a sudden, I was wet.  Yucky wet.

I got out of bed, water streaming down my legs, and knocked on the bathroom door.

“Ryan, I think my water just broke.”

Many hours later in a hospital down the road, our daughter Kate was born. 

This Sunday we celebrated Kate’s eighth birthday.  Or rather, all week long we celebrated Kate’s birthday.  On Friday, she brought school-approved, nutritionally acceptable treats to her class—Pirate Booty.  Saturday night, Kate went on a dinner and ice skating date with Mom and Dad.  Sunday morning, Kate woke up to a breakfast in bed of scrambled eggs, bacon, Pillsbury orange rolls, and orange juice.  Sunday night, at Kate’s request, we had the Y. Family to dinner.

Kate met one of the two Y. Family girls in kindergarten.  Several play dates, art classes, and birthday parties later, we have gotten to know this cute family better.  They fit the Canadian stereotype I discovered a few years ago:  Canadians are simply very nice, easy-going, well-mannered people.

A few days before Sunday, Kate wrote up the menu:
  1. Fruit Dip with fruit
  2. Roasted garlic mashed potatoes
  3. Brazilian white rice
  4. Feijoada


If no one else had been invited to dinner, I probably would have cooked up Kate’s request as written.  However, I wasn’t going to subject our guests to Kate’s quirky fantasy foods on their first meal at our home.  Instead, I compromised.  I served chicken enchiladas with tomatillo sauce, Feijoada, Brazilian rice, grapes, and chips with salsa, black bean dip, and hot nacho cheese dip. 

Kate does not like birthday cake, so I did pick up a traditional grocery store, wildly-decorated sheet cake for dessert.  Kate wanted apple pie.  A smarter mother would have bought a pre-made pie at Marie Calendars and called it a day.  I wasn’t that smart.  I battled with a difficult pie crust, rolling it out, scrapping the dough and starting over at least three times.   However, I ultimately prevailed and served up hot apple pie with a crumble topping and eight pink candles.  Kate was happy.

After a few hours of playing and chatting around the kitchen table, the Y. Family headed home.  I felt very lucky that they were available and willing to spend the evening with us.  I hope all of Kate’s birthdays are this easy, but I wouldn’t be surprised if next year she says,

“Mom, I want a BIG birthday party!”

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